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As a parent, you want to raise your children to be self-sufficient adults. Among the many ways you help them is to start discussing money as early as they can understand simple concepts. As they grow, you can expand the how and why, with the ultimate goal of having them financially skilled enough to be able to manage both a credit card and budget by their sophomore year in college.
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If you would like assistance helping your children learn about managing their money, we are here to help you stay On Course!
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Spending. Saving. Giving. Investing.
- The four pillars of teaching your children about money. The sooner you start taking about money, the more comfortable both you and your children will be. Many, many parents shy away from money talks because their parents never spoke about it. Begin wherever you are to instill a healthy, open attitude toward discussing money.
Allowances
- Your ultimate goal is teach your child how to handle money. In order to do that, they need a cash flow.
- Each family member has chores and responsibilities for the household. These should be separate from the allowance.
- Be consistent about paying the allowance -- think of it as your child's payday. When they're older, you can set up direct deposit.
- Your role is to work with your child to decide how to spend, save, donate, and invest the money -- the four pillars.
- It's ok to give extra allowance for extra chores.
Managing the money/allowance
- Some parents set up a separate savings account with a debit card at their bank, which makes it easy to transfer money.
- Another possibility is an app with a debit card. Greenlight and GoHenry are options. Greenlight costs $5 per month per family. The apps let you set up chores, automatically transfer allowances, recharge the balance, and give you notifications when the card is used. You child cannot overdraw the account -- excellent idea when you're trying to build credit.
In the early years
- Begin as early as your child can understand what to do with money, perhaps a few quarters a week.
- Let them use the money in different ways and discuss why and what other options they have.
As they grow up
- Your goal is to send your kids to college knowing how to manage their money. Ideally, by sophomore year, they should have their own credit card and handle their own budget.
- One great result of this is that by the time they graduate, they will have a fairly decent credit rating because much of the rating is based on how old the credit history is.
- In middle school and especially high school, work with them on how they're spending their allowance.
- Jobs are important for earning extra money as well as learning how to manage a different enviornment from school and home. Great practice for later on. As mentioned below, time to set up a Roth IRA!
Ideas
- For spending, have her figure out what she likes to do socially and use part of the budget for that. If you get a call from the pizza place asking you to put more money on the debit card, it's time for a talk about budgeting!
- For saving, you might say that he needs to budget for the cost of car insurance. Give him the money for it and then have him pay you back quarterly. Same for events or travel that happens only once or twice a year. Another option is a clothes budget, with required items and discretionary items. The purpose here is to learn how to budget for all types of expenses.
- For giving, together find a worthy cause that your child wants to support. Add it to the budget.
- For investing, as soon as she gets a job -- babysitting, camp counselor, lawn mowing, cashier -- it's time to open a Roth IRA! Instill in your child the importance of investing now for the long-term.
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Cosigners on a loan are both responsible for the repayment of that loan. Avoid cosigning a loan for your child unless it's absolutely necessary. If you do cosign, ask to receive duplicate statements from the loan company so you can be sure the payments aren't missed.
Get more tips in Jennifer's book
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Jennifer and Sarah were both named 2022 Boston Five Star Wealth Managers.
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